Saturday, August 22, 2009

Change...

...has come.

It is strange reading the last few posts I wrote MONTHS ago. The things we've experienced recently make it seem like a year ago as opposed to just 4 months. I think things will get back into more of a routine now, so I will try my hand at blogging again...that is, if anyone is still out there...

In June, Dan's mom was admitted into a hospice program. She was in end stage liver failure and was experiencing hallucinations and deminsia. She fought a valiant fight, but lost the battle July 3rd. If you ever met Wanda, you know how sweet of a lady she was. However, the last week of her life was very troublesome. The doctors and nurses kept telling us that it was the disease talking and not her, but it was hard hearing some of the things she said or yelled. Some of it was spiritual, too. She had exceptional nurses at the Odyssey House hospice facility. The chaplain there is a friend of ours, Jeff Strickland. He is the youth pastor at the AG church in Colleyville. We could not have asked for better people to help us through that difficult time.

Wanda chose to be cremated, so we had a waiting time before we could have her services for everything to be ready. Her service was scheduled for July 18th in Lubbock. The day before the service, Dan's cousin's wife, 4 year old son, and 8 month old daughter were involved in a tragic car accident that took the life of the mom and son. The daughter was taken to Cook's Children's Hospital where she stayed for some time. She is home now. She suffered several broken bones throughout her body, as well as a skull fracture. Rusty (dad) is doing as well as possible, moving forward after this tragedy, being a single dad to Piper.

Five days later, a student at youth camp suffered an asthma attack in the middle of the night and, despite the efforts of his counselor, all of the camp medical staff, paramedics, and hospital staff, lost his life. A terrible, terrible night for Dustin's family and friends and unprecedented for North Texas Youth Ministries. Everyone who experienced that night are forever changed.

Everything this summer happened so quickly. Dan went from one tragic thing to the next without time to process it all. Things are slowing down now, so I'm sure he will start to decompress and deal with things instead of pushing it down in order to go on to the next pressing thing. Please pray for him as he goes through this time.

As far as work, goes...
THURSDAY WAS MY LAST DAY AS STORE TEAM LEADER!!!!
I will continue to work part time at the Arlington store, though. My time at the Lake Worth store is over, but while I was there, I was able to flush out all the problem people that were there when I arrived. As of now, there are only two people that were there when I came. Those two are people that are willing and able to do the job that is required of them. The rest of the staff that is currently there are people that I have hired who will do well for the company. Good people are in place, and sales are up, so I left it in better condition than it was when I got there. Mission accomplished.

And the reason why I left and going part time....
I START SCHOOL FULL TIME TOMORROW!!!!
I was able to get financial aid that paid for the whole year, books and everything! I am excited and scared and nervous and every other emotion that happens when you go back to school after 15 years! It's been a long time coming. Pray for me!

Well, I think I've covered all the bases. I think that is enough change for a while!

I miss my blogging friends. I know a lot of you are on Facebook, and that is more "convenient", but I've been missing all the details!

I wish everyone a good day tomorrow!

3 comments:

JAC said...

So good to "hear" from you. Both you and Dan are in our prayers as you have had quite a stressful summer. LOVE you.

beautiful chaos said...

What an awful whirlwind!
Glad you're hunkering down and getting school finished!
I will be praying for you and Dan.

rhondamarie said...

i am with you on the facebook - its nice but i also miss the details you get from blogging.